Changes aren't a bad thing, nor truly hard, if grasped and understood. The trouble is with the individual, not per say just them, but everything that has happened, everything that has shaped their lives, the way they think, the way they operate, most certainly love. It's a struggle, a game of tug-of-war, just to figure out when and where, to attain and execute change in any matter takes practice, and hard work. But that doesn't make it a bad choice, a negative chapter, and it can be easy if one gives life a chance.
Life gives you everything you need, to be yourself, to show the world who you are, and most importantly show you the world, the life you have. The ways we make it difficult are when we over do the ways we try to shape our lives into something extra, something more than what is, what is in front of us, something that is not truly worth chasing, or dedicating ourselves for. We chase the good, the better each step of the way. Rarely taking the opportunities to view what we have as the best, or as good as it gets. Simply because our minds in our society have been molded to always think better is always available, or meant for us to attain. Life does not necessarily work that way.
Taking for granted the life we have at the current moment is something we all are at fault for. It's amazing that we can talk about it and truly never do anything about it. Until something is taken away that makes us realize what was. But the most surprising part of it all is the fact that even when we get another chance, we tend to compare and take advantage of the changed chapters in our lives to shine light on what could be better or what could better a situation once again. Sometimes forgetting that what we have might just be what is BEST FOR US!!
In order for a better life, we must strive for what makes us smile, and fulfill us entirely, but are you making sure those things are in check, and effortlessly there without reaching for what you think is better, when you truly have not given anything you currently have, the chance to be your best, or the greatest for your moment...
The changes you decide to make in life must come at times when you need them most, but take my advice and make sure you have tried just as hard, to make the chapters you experience feelings of doubt or desired feelings of change, the best you could, before you change and leave everything behind. Remember that when the change comes, and if you decide to go forward with it, to not look back and mold the things in your future, based on your past per say, but what you need to be happy. That is why before you move forward, make sure you never give up on the things that mean most, because of the appealing differences, or the ease of change. You do not want to move forward always looking back, asking why, or most importantly move forward just to want the same things you once changed prematurely, and be left desiring the same thing you once thought was worth changing.
The recipe for change, is worth a life time, just make sure you think it through, before you turn the page, because if done right, the next pages will be worth the entire story.
MK 16'
