Thursday, December 22, 2011

Live Unlimited. My 15 Steps.

To those that want to live unlimited:
  • Know who you are...



  • Believe in yourself...



  • Learn to love everyone... 



  • Speak your mind, all of your thoughts...



  • Learn how to respect yourself...



  • Learn to be patient...



  • Understand there are more ways than one...



  • Give others the same chances you want...



  • Never worry about things you can't control...



  • Remember that it's not who loves you, it's who you love...



  • Accept all people, as you would want to be accepted...



  • Never give up...



  • Never Settle...



  • Be honest, but understand that lying is inevitable...



  • Don't worry about time...

Truthfully,


MAK 11'

Sunday, December 18, 2011

The Emotion of Hate...

I must say it is depressing that I still see people spend so much of their energy, to separate themselves from others.  It is important for us to motivate each other with our differences to come to understanding, and realize that spending energy to make society come together, is what makes the world go round.

Whatever the situation is, believe in me, when i say this.... I promise it is so much easier to love, and not worry about what the other person is doing to you, than to hate, and completely spend a lifetime doing so.  You can easily forget about yourself, what and who you are, and what your dreams and goals in life are...  But on the other hand, your goal and dreams may be to be a destructive force towards the society we live in.  Some people have come to believe that this is the right way to live, that this is leadership, a calling from some religious power, or in other words the only way they have ever been taught.

Please listen...

None of us, were born to believe one person is better than us, we were not born to hate, to be honest, we are all born to love, as soon as were taken out of the womb, we are automatically looking for our mother through scent.  This is love, this is the emotion that we are born with, before any of us are taught, we are all lovable human beings.

So I ask you this? 

Do you still believe that you were made this way?
Do you still believe that this is who you are?

Pause.

Remember that in life, you have a thing called decisions... These type of things allow you to live life, the way you want to live... Despite any setbacks that society has for you, everyone has the opportunity to be happy.

With that being said..

There is not one damn reason, to say you are not happy, to blame others for your hateful feelings, to blame others for your life, to act like one race is over another, to exclude people from your life because you feel you are better, and most of all, act like you are the best.

I want to extend my hand to everyone that is hateful, and tell you something...

I have learned that in life, no matter how much you hate something, there has been a point in your life, or will be a point in your life, that you have or will depend on something that you hate, or feel love for it, or them.

Break this hate, break this silence you have caused yourself.

Break the path of destruction.

Break this path of self hate you cause yourself every time you look in the mirror, and realize you dont know who you are any more...

Because I promise you one thing....

Society will defeat you!

Love will win...


Truthfully,

-MAK 11' 

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

The Beginning and Ending of An Expected Chapter...

To begin..


It has been one thing to talk about it, another to actually live it.  Only one person can explain feelings... Yourself, Myself. This is what we do best. What I do best.


I want to give you insight into one of the best chapters in my life. That has recently come to an end, and most importantly has once again begun.


Since I can remember, I have always wondered, thought of things in my own ways, along side having my ears and eyes open, to not only see things in my life, but to listen, and observe what I can one day experience, change, and tell.  I was always propelled forward in life, by only a few people, most importantly my Father, which has granted me the opportunity to see life, in ways many have not.  I have never struggled, in the field of love, or having a roof over my head to live, eat, and enjoy life. This is all thanks to him.  For he has allowed me to see life, and create my own Moral's, theorie's, experience's, and most of all the way I love.


It was at a young age that I started to admire my education.  Although I must say, there were many times, that my own discipline was not enough to stay on track. I needed to be pushed from all sides of the spectrum. But there was much missing. 


There was something never there.  Something that most people take for granted, a piece of life that most people never have to worry about.  "FAMILY" ... This is not to take away from my father, but most importantly to shine light on every person that was supposed to care, that never did.  This certain notion of emotional feeling I had towards this missing love, kickstarted a feeling in me that would forever change my life, and make me the person I believe, is who I am most happiest to be.


To explain in the fewest words...


To not have the people that are supposed to love you.. Not love you, Not call on you, Not show you their keys to life, or grant you the same opportunity they would have wanted if they were in your shoes..... "Goes to show you that in life, nothing is supposed to love you"..


As I sit here, looking back at the past 22 years of life...


I have never found true love in someone that is supposed to love you, matter of fact, those are the people you should avoid. As most of the time, they have to love you, because of what society tells them to do. That is my eyes is not true love, that is not what I want, to be loving me. I want someone... I want someone that love, because they would love too.


So I end with this..


As this chapter of life started, I saw many roads to take, I Heard, Witnessed, and Listened to much of what everyone told me, offerred me, and took from me along the way.


As I walked across that stage Thursday, to receive my degree of a higher education.


It was just a friendly reminder...


That the love you have for yourself, carries you much further than any love you will ever receive from someone else.


That the love from the people that are not supposed to love you, is the love that you think about during moments that change your life.


That it is not who loves you, It is who you love. 


And for that..


I Love You All!!


To~ My family and friends. 




-Mak Dec. 11'











Friday, September 30, 2011

My Simple Way of Life


Truthfully:

I have nothing to hide... Life is for everyone to share, and understand together....
Its so hard to get a young mind to understand the difference between wrong and right though... One must learn for themselves... But Listen....
In order to live life to the fullest.. You must understand that you are living a life that matters more to someone else, than it does to you.
But the irony, the greed, the power of human existence has taken away most of the essential emotions that we need to Love adequately ...
You have to understand the other emotions, before you can create your own emotions.... 
Although, you will seemingly meet obstacles in life. It is all an illusion that we create, to stress, to worry, about things we cant control...
We live for ourselves to much of the time... Step outside of what your taught, what you have grown to know. Break the realm of ignorance.
Allow yourself to think outside of what you have been socially taught or to value as the right way to live.. Explore, Research, Understand Life...
Think for more than just one, Think for All, Get a feeling for all walks of life, live for each other.. Diversify the world.. Diversify YOU...
Pay It Forward... Is all Im saying... Change One, Change The Next, Diversity is the key to our survival.. Think Deep, Think at all Costs...
I have such a wide Variety of thoughts... Simply Because I allow myself to think for others. To see the light from all spectrums of my life...
This way of life is not for all.. I understand that... Im just asking you to love someone you were taught not to love... And see what you learn...

"Its not who loves you, Its who you love"

-Michael 11'

Saturday, February 26, 2011

The Forgotten Life, The Changing of LIfe Forever

Every generation has its fair share of changes.  These changes can vary from extreme, disastrous, Exciting, but most importantly all are historical, and life changing in some way.  Assassinations, Space Travel, Racial divides and reunions, Laws, Wars, Lies, Medical Discoveries, Animal Extinction, Our black President, all things have been part of our generations for the past 50+ years, and we sometimes have no idea of the magnitude of how they changed our lives. But the purpose of this blog is to shine on something that has changed life FOREVER.

We follow, we lead, we innovate, we create, and we communicate.....

Our days today as always, are limited... But the rush of our lives is driving us crazy.. It is only important to shine light on the way we have Forgotten Life, how we have no desire to look back historically and pinpoint what we are missing today, because we are so caught up in our current lives.

The development/invention/idea of the SOCIAL NETWORK has taken charge.  These two words, have changed the way we live, changed eating habits, attitudes, behavior, relationships, and most of all our moral, and self confidence.  
It has taken our lives and made it somethings we can no longer control, our communication skills are going down hill, and lives are now controlled by keystrokes, flashing cameras, and mouse clicks.  
More importantly the point here, is to simply remind the reader, that this is not completely such a bad thing, but that it has irreversibly changed our lives, and has allowed us to forget our past lifestyles.

  We have created a way to shorten the time between conversations, our work, and our leisure time as well.  As we spend more and more time on these networks of communication, we tend to shy away from  the things we truly enjoy doing.  As we begin to follow, more than lead in our lives.  I truly believe that the lives we share now, will continue into a path of future destruction of communication as we know it. (Maybe we will never have to talk again, computers will know what we want to say)!  Just food for thought, but isn't that what we have done in today's world, destroyed the way we are meant to communicate.  

  We no longer enjoy interpersonal communication, we as a society would shy away from that, according to recent polls.  We have shorter conversations, our language is worse off than ever before, and are more worried about what people are doing, instead of how and why they are doing these things.  Again, Im talking about the majority of people, not singling out anyone.  We no longer talk to one another about issues or problems, we share them to the world, allowing things to be manipulated and falsified as private information no longer exists. Most of all, we no longer value our relationships, our quality time, and personal feelings, as these networks have changed every aspect of life we grew up to knew.

  No longer are telephone calls relevant, we have replaced that with text messaging, no longer is reading the same, as we read manipulated text on the internet, no longer is that friend the same now they are a (FACEBOOK FRIEND), as you only communicate in person when you stumble across each other, but post wall posts every chance you get on their wall!

  Is this true for you, are you missing the times with nature, your family, your friends, your pets, your LIFE? Simply because you can't get off your phone, because you cannot stand to be without twitter for a few minutes, and those Facebook comments have you running back to check who's stalking you now? Or your to focused on how many friends you can get by simply clicking ACCEPT?

If so, don't feel bad, media, technology, and these social networks have affected the entire Globe...

  My main point of it all, is not to bash on the creation of such technology, or the way it has affected our society in such ways as I stated above; but to simply show the way our lives have changed for ever... We no longer value the true friendship, or relationship, but we act like we have a substitution in these new forms of communication.  

  This is just a friendly reminder, that nothing will ever take place of human to human, person to person, friend to friend, brother to brother, communication.  We will one day be reminded of the great importance of such simple word exchanges, hugs, emotions, that we cannot even see today.  As the world always re-roots its history, and we will always be dependent of each other, not IP address's, LIKE buttons, Tweets, or photos of each other.  

Hold Hands, and life will  once again be WHOLE!

MAK  

Feb 11'