This reflection are for those that may be lost, those that may think they love with their fullest potential, and most importantly those that have done things to jeopardize the ones they love for selfish reasons. This can go for those that have loved with all their heart, just to reemphasize the fact that you are doing a great job, and to keep it up.
We all have choices we make everyday... Some of us take these choices and make the common call on most, or the choice that we are just accustomed to. We sometimes forget the choices we have at hand, forgetting the power and consequences of the ones we face every moment of our lives. I have been blessed to have many great people in my life, some that loved me with their all, some not so much. But the older I get, the wiser I become, the more I can sit here and think of all the things that could have been better, If I would have made better choices. By choices Im not talking just aesthetics, but also the things we dont see, feel, smell, or taste, the choices that we take for granted and sometimes forget to pay attention to, or even acknowledge.
The hot topic of LOVE. Everyone talks about it, everyone wants it, everyone feels it regardless of what you may think or say, it is a part of life, we all desire to fulfill before we die.
The main questions being:
- Are you doing the right things to attain the love you want?
- Do you have the love for yourself, that you are willing to share with someone else?
- Have you ever thought of how it is to be hurt, or loved, before trying to attain love from someone?
- Do you know love?
- If you know love, do you know what it takes to keep that love alive, for both sides?
- Have you found happiness and if so, are you willing to share that happiness with someone else?
All these questions are things we should ask ourselves daily. Matter fact, I can almost guarantee that these thoughts run through most heads daily, and probably most of you, but in different forms.
Such as.
- Am I doing what makes me happy?
- Is what I'm doing making the person that I love happy?
- Does this other person love me, as much as I love them?
- Do they know love?
- I wonder if they know how hurtful it is when they do this and that?
- I wonder if this will last?
- What can I do to be sure this lasts?
So maybe you caught the irony in what I'm stating above....
In all, to explain this in deeper context for you..
Life seems to trick us into thinking we actually do know everything about our feelings. People think love is love, and hate is hate. But sometimes life tricks you, leaving you more clueless than before you even knew love, or even knew hate. You think you have been hurt, when you really havent, you think you have loved when you really havent.
In truth, the choices we are faced with daily, are based on what we think we know, but at the end of the day that is life, it is only what we can do. So inevitably we chase the love, that we think is love, and we tend to run from the hate, that we think is hate.
It is important that when you have the choice in front of you to share something with someone, that is special to you, to take full advantage of it. As the choices we make inevitably shape our future. Even though at the moment it may not seem like it, there really is truth in self karma. You must have the state of mind of doing good, if you want good in your future, doing bad, if you want bad in your future..
Yes, there is always time to change, but I'll save that for another time to discuss.
I want you to take a few things out of this, if anything.
First of all, if you have love in your life, that makes you happy, do not cheat the love, by doing selfish things, because love doesn't lie, but love doesn't have to last forever for you either.
Second--apologies go but so far for yourself, at some point you will realize that mistakes are common, yes, but repeating the same things will set you back even further from the love you are pursuing in your life.
Third-- Do not think for one second that life stops for you, if you think someone will stop pursuing their happiness for you, think again. You must adjust, you must have space in your heart to allow movement of love, to allow somethings not to go your way, but loves way.
Fourth-- Love with your all, show your heart that you can defeat any feelings of uncertainty, give the opportunity to every moment of love, to shine, and be great. Do not pass up on love, as love is not guaranteed for you or anyone.
Fifth--Your past does not define you today, stop thinking of what you have done, if you have the power to change you will change.
Most importantly do not blame anyone else but yourself for the situations and choices you are in, or make...
Remember some of these things.
and I will promise you:
- A bright future.
- Love of the greatest kind (With Patience)
- Finding yourself.
- Happiness (In which you control)
- No Guilt.
- No blaming others for your problems.
As I wrap this up, dont make excuses for what you have not become, but make sure to understand the reasons of what you have become, who you are, and what you know makes you happy..
With that being said,
I must say it feels great to be in love.. True love at last.
Truthfully..
Mike
Nov. 12'
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